What Are Your Relationship Patterns

Published on

September 28, 2020

TJ Gibbs

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It’s not easy to know where the issues in a relationship originate. There are two sides to every story – of course, that doesn’t mean the two sides are equal! This Love Exercise is designed to help you identify if there’s an element of self-sabotage involved. There’s no point scoring, no big reveal or answers page. This is a self-reflection exercise to help you find some clarity

It's not easy to know where the issues in a relationship originate. There are two sides to every story - of course, that doesn't mean the two sides are equal! This Love Exercise is designed to help you identify if there's an element of self-sabotage involved. There's no point scoring, no big reveal or answers page. This is a self-reflection exercise to help you find some clarity

Consider your past relationships and ask yourself what patterns you notice in them. Be specific - and write down every one you come up with, positive, negative, and neutral.

For example, I tend to choose older partners.
Reviewing the above list - which patterns do you feel to be a problem?
For each selected, who have you seen experience a similar situation? How did they handle it?
If you were going to do one thing today that would help you in address these problems, what would that be? Choose something for each issue identified.
Hopefully, these reflections help put some of these patterns into focus for you
The goal isn't a complete solution in one go - we're just framing and putting things in perspective. If you'd like to explore these with support, arrange a Life & Love Session with TJ.
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