“If you are someone who frequently puts other’s needs before your own, don’t be surprised when others always put your needs last”

 It’s Friday night and you are considering your weekend schedule. The phone is ringing and Whatsapp pinging with offers from a pool of “possibly the ones”. Many who engage in online dating don’t find it hard to get a date but are at risk of becoming serial first daters as the first date tends to not tick their boxes. 

First dates are an occupational hazard for many looking for love.  Some progress beyond 2nd dates into long term relationships but for many the 2nd date is a No Thanks!  Reasons for this can range from the first date being boring or not clicking through to their date confessing that they did time for stalking their ex!    

You may be single right now but are you actually ready for a relationship?

Tis the season to be jolly falalalala lala la la ! Ok so its party season and fun is rife at this time of year.

So it’s that time of year again – the time when looking silly with Xmas jumpers and Santa hats, acting silly with mistletoe and bad Xmas carol singing is totally encouraged.

So your gut told you something was up and you did your homework – you’re now higher than 80% sure that you are being lied to and that there is someone else in the picture? ? If your response is “No” or “Not Exactly” – but you have your suspicions, then the situation might be a bit too early to act on. Check out “Am I dating A Liar” to...

Ok, so you have recently met someone. You definitely think this is going somewhere but something is niggling you – something feels off.  They seem distracted and often “not with you” completely. They are saying they are single and not dating anyone else but you’re not convinced.

At a time when statistics for both the UK and the US show a record high of over 50% of the population being single, why are so many strugging in the pursuit of lasting love?