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Become A Human Being

Written by TJ Gibbs on August 12, 2015. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

Life has a momentum that seems to change….. so randomly at willSometimes it feels so hectic …… other times so stillI struggle to appreciate my blessings…. when times are good or badAlways thinking of what used to be….. or what I could have had

Is My Partner Cheating?

Written by TJ Gibbs on June 17, 2015. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

The statistics of a recent poll on Infidelity carried out by IllicitEncounters.com and Onepoll, show that 18.3% of women and 25.4% of men have cheated on their current partner at least once and show that cheating is no longer just the domain of men. With the fact that more women are in the workplace than ever before and with the rise in online...

Are you “In Love” – With Yourself?

Written by TJ Gibbs on December 31, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

Are you “In Love” – With Yourself? Excerpt from “Get Ready For Love” by TJ Gibbs – The Love Coach – available on Amazon January 2015 Something I frequently witness in women is a tendency to love others more than we love ourselves. We are often entrained to give all our love to the men and children in our lives, before we give it to ourselves.

Xmas Singles Pity Party

Written by TJ Gibbs on December 17, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

Being Single can be a daunting and overwhelming experience , especially if you have been used to being in a long term relationship. Whether you have chosen to be single..taking a sabbatical from the roller coaster of love and lust ..or the single title has been bestowed upon you with little option via cries of “its not you its me”, or...

What is Love?

Written by TJ Gibbs on October 1, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

According to Google “What is love” was the most searched phrase on Google in 2012. So what is this Love that we search for in earnest ..does it mean the same thing to everyone or do people “do” love differently? How do we know if indeed it is Love or is it possible its just Lust?

agape, Eros, Lust, obsession, pragma, relationship growth, sexual addiction, Storge, What is Love, why does he not love me like i love him

He Is Turned Off By My Weight Gain

Written by TJ Gibbs on June 30, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

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I happened to watch an item on a TV show this morning related to a woman whose husband had told her he was no longer attracted to her because she had put on weight. They asked for people’s opinions so I offered mine and then thought I would share it with you as a blog.

PEACE………Accepting What Is…

Written by TJ Gibbs on April 30, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

Scary flutters of uncertainty that never seem to ceaseWill this doubt be over soon ….When is my time for PEACEI don’t like where I am and not sure where I’m goingBut just can’t face the truth and accept that I am growing

Whose Voice Is In Your Head?

Written by TJ Gibbs on April 28, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

You may have heard of limiting beliefs …these are subconscious thought processes that stop us doing something you might want to do by illiciting emotions in you that affect your decisions……these beliefs often make themselves known as a little voice in our head that we try to swat away like a fly and can literally frustrate you as to why...

I Am Hurting – Who Can Help?

Written by TJ Gibbs on April 27, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

When we are hurting our first point of call is usually to reach out to our nearest and dearest…but where do you go for help if the pain is caused by the person you are closest to. Of course it’s then natural to reach out to a friend but what if you are just not ready for others to know?

Are You Sick and Tired Of Something In Your Life?

Written by TJ Gibbs on April 26, 2014. Posted in TJ's Blog. Leave a Comment

Acceptance and change are things many of us struggle with. People can often find themselves holding on to CERTAIN unhappiness because they fear change and the possibility of UNCERTAIN happiness. Security for many is doing what they know…even if that security causes misery and loss of hope.