Many of us get to the stage in life where we sit down and reflect on where we have got to and try to look forward to where we want to go.  Major birthdays or events are catalysts for these reflections.

The saying goes that “Talking to yourself is a sign of madness” –  I disagree! I think the sign of madness is when you don’t listen!

Ok, so you have recently met someone. You definitely think this is going somewhere but something is niggling you – something feels off. They seem distracted and often “not with you” completely. They are saying they are single and not dating anyone else but you’re not convinced.

I am not disputing that there are men out there who have no issue in making Valentine’s day special for their “other half” just as there are those guys who are not so convinced. Feedback from guys as below is not uncommon:

So, your gut told you something was up and you have done your homework – you’re now higher than 80% sure that you are being lied to and that there is someone else in the picture?

You’ve been told that you are the only one they are dating but you just can’t shift the feeling that there is someone else in the picture.  How sure are you that you are being lied to? Is it just a feeling right now? Do you have concrete proof?

  “If you are someone who frequently puts other’s needs before your own, don’t be surprised when others always put your needs last”

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