As a teenager, 50-year-olds were those comfortable humans who wore slippers, drank copious amounts of tea, might smoke a pipe or knit lovely scarfs and took the dog for a walk twice a day! Having now entered the 50+ culture the above is a mere whiff of what this generation gets up to! For many 50 is the time you start to grow older “disgracefully”....
If you are finding yourself a divorcee or widower in later life the question of remaining alone for your future years may well have crossed your mind and those of others around you who may want you to move on and find happiness again.Both divorce and death mean not just grieving the loss of a loved one as you would a friend or a parent, but also...
With accusations and admissions of cheating an everyday media headline you may be forgiven in thinking that the majority of relationships encounter infidelity. What % of people do you think cheat on their partners – 50%? 65%? Are women just as likely to cheat on their partners as men? It might surprise you to know that having reviewed...
Happy relationship – it’s the holy grail, right? It’s no secret that relationships are hard work! It takes time, commitment and a lot of patience to build a happy and healthy partnership. When it comes to relationships, we spend a lot of time focusing on the big things — but often it is the small gestures and habits that make all the...
Long-distance relationships are hard! There is no simple path to maintaining a long-distance relationship, either. They need care and attention like any other relationship, but there’s that extra layer of special care that needs adding when distance is involved. With that in mind, try these 8 techniques to keep things going well: 1....
So Christmas (I am going to shorten this to Xmas although some
hate that!) has rolled round again in a blink of an eye. If, like me, you have been watching “I am a Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here” this year were you one of those surprised by the Dingo Dollar answer that the % for those voting Xmas as the best time of the year was...
Taking a break alone is a daunting concept for many of the people I speak with. The idea of solitude in a foreign environment often stop them from experiencing what can be a very therapeutic and rewarding step in the journey to self-love and mindfulness. It’s normal to crave some distance; a change of scenery and a break from home life, work...
Is there someone in your life who is trying to negatively influence your emotions or perception without you realising?In the 1940’s Ingrid Bergman classic, Gaslight, a young woman unknowingly falls victim to the insidious mind games perpetrated by her own husband in an attempt to steal her inheritance by having her sectioned. Whilst this represents...
This Valentine’s day, my message is one so often overlooked
by those who need it most. It is simple
to pay lip service to but difficult to achieve. Unbelievably personal yet will only manifest
or grow when explored more openly and in depth.
My message relates to the recapturing of Self-Love. You may have heard me discuss self-love...
Relationships are made up of many elements including trust, attraction, understanding, compassion, quality time, shared memories, feeling special, having someone who has your back, someone to laugh with, someone to share your deepest fears with.
I contacted TJ because I was tired of being in pain in my love relationships. I was tired and frustrated...read moreI contacted TJ because I was tired of being in pain in my love relationships. I was tired and frustrated about always picking the wrong men and feeling lonely in relationships. I blamed myself for choosing the wrong men and for not being able to leave them sooner. I stayed with men who I felt did not love me enough and who I gave more than they gave me. I I could not really tell my friends, as I was fearing they would either laugh at me or even lose respect for me.
I booked TJ’s “Weekend With The Love Coach Programme” and have since followed up with her Cognitive Hypnotherapy sessions. When I booked the weekend with TJ I was expecting it to be good. It was not just good, it was life changing and truly amazing. It has helped me to grow personally in big steps in just 3 months. It triggered life changing revelations. I was already seeking to make changes in many areas of my life and her coaching provided me with that final push.
In general, I am more at peace with what is and I am less scared of what lies in the future. Through her Cognitive Hypnotherapy work I was also able to let go of some traumatic past experience, which always used to hold me back from progressing in life and love as they caused a lot of anger inside me.
I dont know what else I can say other than to say Thank You TJ from the bottom of my heart and that if you know you need help too, I so recommend taking the first step and booking a session with TJ.read less