This Valentine’s day, my message is one so often overlooked
by those who need it most. It is simple
to pay lip service to but difficult to achieve. Unbelievably personal yet will only manifest
or grow when explored more openly and in depth.
My message relates to the recapturing of Self-Love.
You may have heard me discuss self-love...
Relationships are made up of many elements including trust, attraction, understanding, compassion, quality time, shared memories, feeling special, having someone who has your back, someone to laugh with, someone to share your deepest fears with.
Many of us get to the stage in life where we sit down and reflect on where we have got to and try to look forward to where we want to go. Major birthdays or events are catalysts for these reflections.
Ok, so you have recently met someone. You definitely think this is going somewhere but something is niggling you – something feels off. They seem distracted and often “not with you” completely. They are saying they are single and not dating anyone else but you’re not convinced.
I am not disputing that there are men out there who have no issue in making Valentine’s day special for their “other half” just as there are those guys who are not so convinced. Feedback from guys as below is not uncommon:
Legend has it that Valentine’s day is named after the Christian martyr, St Valentine. He is said to have defied the Roman army’s ban on its elite soldiers marrying, by performing the ceremony in secret.
So, your gut told you something was up and you have done your homework – you’re now higher than 80% sure that you are being lied to and that there is someone else in the picture?
You’ve been told that you are the only one they are dating but you just can’t shift the feeling that there is someone else in the picture. How sure are you that you are being lied to? Is it just a feeling right now? Do you have concrete proof?
