Articles that TJ writes for The Love Coach cover all steps in the cycle of love and include tips and advice for many dating or relationship issues. Her experience as a Love Therapist, Love Coach and Life Coach bring a real-life approach to everyday situations Remember life is for loving – that includes yourself! TJ x
As a teenager, 50-year-olds were those comfortable humans who wore slippers, drank copious amounts of tea, might smoke a pipe or knit lovely scarfs and took the dog for a walk twice a day! Having now entered the 50+ culture the above is a mere whiff of what this generation gets up to! For many 50 is the time you start to grow older “disgracefully”....
If you are finding yourself a divorcee or widower in later life the question of remaining alone for your future years may well have crossed your mind and those of others around you who may want you to move on and find happiness again.Both divorce and death mean not just grieving the loss of a loved one as you would a friend or a parent, but also...
With accusations and admissions of cheating an everyday media headline you may be forgiven in thinking that the majority of relationships encounter infidelity. What % of people do you think cheat on their partners – 50%? 65%? Are women just as likely to cheat on their partners as men? It might surprise you to know that having reviewed...
Happy relationship – it’s the holy grail, right? It’s no secret that relationships are hard work! It takes time, commitment and a lot of patience to build a happy and healthy partnership. When it comes to relationships, we spend a lot of time focusing on the big things — but often it is the small gestures and habits that make all the...
Long-distance relationships are hard! There is no simple path to maintaining a long-distance relationship, either. They need care and attention like any other relationship, but there’s that extra layer of special care that needs adding when distance is involved. With that in mind, try these 8 techniques to keep things going well: 1....
So Christmas (I am going to shorten this to Xmas although some
hate that!) has rolled round again in a blink of an eye. If, like me, you have been watching “I am a Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here” this year were you one of those surprised by the Dingo Dollar answer that the % for those voting Xmas as the best time of the year was...
Taking a break alone is a daunting concept for many of the people I speak with. The idea of solitude in a foreign environment often stop them from experiencing what can be a very therapeutic and rewarding step in the journey to self-love and mindfulness. It’s normal to crave some distance; a change of scenery and a break from home life, work...
Is there someone in your life who is trying to negatively influence your emotions or perception without you realising?In the 1940’s Ingrid Bergman classic, Gaslight, a young woman unknowingly falls victim to the insidious mind games perpetrated by her own husband in an attempt to steal her inheritance by having her sectioned. Whilst this represents...
This Valentine’s day, my message is one so often overlooked
by those who need it most. It is simple
to pay lip service to but difficult to achieve. Unbelievably personal yet will only manifest
or grow when explored more openly and in depth.
My message relates to the recapturing of Self-Love. You may have heard me discuss self-love...
Although Valentine’s day is traditionally a day for lovers to celebrate each other there is a growing trend of singleton’s investing in self-love on Valentine day’s.
Last year two-thirds of women planned to celebrate Valentine’s even if they didn’t have a partner in their lives. Men have often been so busy thinking about pleasing someone else...
When my path crossed with TJ’s I was at one of the lowest points of my life. I had been...read moreWhen my path crossed with TJ’s I was at one of the lowest points of my life. I had been off my anti-depressants for 4 months after 9 years……and I was struggling. I had quit my job because I couldn’t cope with it anymore and life looked bleak, to say the least.
We started with Love Therapy and for me, the Cognitive Hypnotherapy was key. Using my sub-conscious to understand my issues and start to heal me.
TJ has also done Love Coaching with me. I wasn’t sure how much I would learn or be able to take and use in ‘real life’ but it has given me an insight into myself, my past and a promising future that I never expected. I know what my Soul wants now and how to recognise him when I meet him. I won’t be making the same mistakes I have made time after time.
Through TJ’s Life and Love Coaching I have changed in so many ways and all for the better. I am still me, but I am a new, improved me. Six months ago I thought I would never feel happy or positive again but I do, and I have my self-confidence and self-belief back which are so important for me.
I would recommend TJ to anyone who has realised they need help to understand themselves, and what they do, but don’t know where to turn.read less
