All of the relationships in my life have meaning to me. How I act can influence the course of my relationships and I can control my actions. I provide value in my relationships by listening to others and this deepens the connection.
Whenever possible, I pay attention to others when they speak, truly listening to what they say. I feel their feelings and hear more than just the words. I tune out distractions and focus my attention on one person at a time.
I give this gift of attention without expecting anything in return.
Although my goal is to help others feel heard and understood, I cannot listen to everyone and this is okay.
I give my loved ones my most personal attention and listen to others when the time permits.
When I feel tired or unable to give someone the attention they deserve, I politely excuse myself. It is good to listen to myself as well.
Today, I enrich my relationships by listening to others. I can demonstrate effective listening skills, teaching others how to listen as well.
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When I originally had my Life & Love Reading my Love & Life Happiness Score was 6.5. During a Love... read moreWhen I originally had my Life & Love Reading my Love & Life Happiness Score was 6.5. During a Love Coaching sessions I had carried out my Soul Mate Profiling exercise in the Get Ready For Love book, as homework, and during the following Love Therapy session, I at first became tearful at the thought that I had already met and lost my soul mate.
However, as the Cognitive Hypnotherapy sessions deal with the sub conscious it soon became clear from the Soul Mate Profiling outcome that actually he did not, and probably never would, match up to what my Soul really needed as a mate. It was during this session, that I was able to finally let go of the painful breakup, start healing the anxiety and heartbreak and let him go from my thoughts knowing he was not enough for me. After just 4 combined Love Coaching/Love Therapy sessions over two months with TJ’s help and support, I have completed the Get Ready For Love Programme, moved on from heartache, and have started to love myself. I finally realise I actually truly do deserve someone to love and even more someone to love me in return. This was reflected in the subsequent Life & Love Reading carried out again after the sessions where my score was 8.1!!
Whilst I am not actually dating a man right now I am dating someone far more significant – Myself! And you know what – she’s an amazing loving special person and I am falling in love with her!! read less