We all need love in our lives. That is an undeniable fact. But life does not come with an instruction manual that gives you a defined formula for finding the right person. And it is left to us to bumble about to try and do our best for our love lives. This means that often we find ourselves running round and round in circles and meeting dead ends in our quest for love, which eventually crumbles our spirit. It is essential that we have an objective view of our love life and an in-depth understanding of ourselves and the people we attract in order to find a soulmate and create a fulfilling, lasting relationship.